Getting to know the neighbours via their bathrooms and, er – where’s the barn?

People are quite curious about your cleaning habits when you live in a yurt, and are not in possession of a bathroom. Rather wonderfully, we have a number of neighbours who are very generous with their facilities. Brendan and Della, who look down on us from the Bron, are generous shower offerers; we do have to time our ablutions with them on a non school night though, because of the wine intake. We popped up there the other night and Della just happened to cook enough food for all of us. Showers with extras, how cool is that?Brendan also happens to be a plumber, and it looks like he’s coming on board with the build which is exciting.

Pat and John live across the river and again they are fantastic about us nipping over for a shower, it’s a very sociable affair, normally with a cup of tea or a pint of bitter. John has been an electrician and has also offered to help out where he can. He also knows all the wildlife in the area and is just an incredible fount of information. He also used to garden and we’ve already had rhubarb, yellow flag iris and rasberry canes from him. They are extremely kind people.

Helen and Simon live up on the bog and again are a very sociable bath experience. Helen was once heard to say, in the local shop, that as her water had stopped running she needed 6 bottles of wine… Simon also happens to be a carpenter! As a consequence of using their bathroom, we are now going to their wedding which sounds more like a mini festival.

Then Liz and Dudley at the local B and B in the village itself have always said that their water is hot should we need a shower/bath.

So there you all go – that’s how we keep clean, and how we’ve been getting to know the neighbours.

How many different questions can you answer in a day? Well it would seem an almost infinite variety when you are building your own home.

As we mentioned in our brief last blog, it’s all gone a bit busy. The builders have started! It’s led to some rather dramatic consequences. As the floor was being dug out the south wall began to show some rather large stress fractures. This wall was always coming down anyhow. It’s where the sun room is and the top is made of poor brickwork and bodged stonework. So we were pretty cool about that, until we noticed some more stress fractures in the two walls leading off from that.

Anyhow to cut a long story short… well, we only have a little bit of the barn left, large areas just fell away. So shockingly the direction of our barn has changed somewhat, instead of: repair work, insulating internally, limecrete floors and extreme steels in the roof, it looks like we’ll be: starting from scratch in parts of the barn, using durasol blocks (which will give us all our insulation), possibly different flooring (limecrete is suddenly an extremely expensive option with the extra we would now need), and different engineering requirements. We were tormented by the limecrete floor as we felt it was particularly necessary with underfloor heating, but apparently not.

So, to ensure that we can afford solar water heating and a stove with a back boiler on it, we have opted for …. concrete flooring. It’s shocking to a green fascist like me that we have gone down this route but to not could have cost us 6-8k instead of a 2k – that difference is the solar panel and the stove . Difficult choices, which are sometimes made for you. On the bright side we shouldn’t need any new stones as we have plenty.

Oh and builders do seem great. Woodsy is a character; we were somewhat disturbed to hear him shriek “here’s Jonny” as he smashed, rather redundantly now, through a blocked up door way. Neil is a more traditional builder but has a fairly broad mind and may be amused by our eccentric little ways. They have also got that we are not “straight lines” people, in that we want rugged walls with little holes and ledges – it’s great for birds, bats, insects and lichens you see. Neatness is never good for wildlife.

We have also had thrown at us the coldest winter in years. A spectacular month of frosts in which we were both horrendously ill; then there was a week of snow, which trapped us in. Fantastic! However now spring is definitely peeking round the skirts of winter. Everything is giving a good old stretch. Owls are shrieking again, different message this time – it’s more “oiy come over ‘ere luv”. Birds are definitely warming up, it’s getting noisy in the morning. Buds are emerging on trees. Bumble bees have been sighted. The honey bees are out, pooing apparently. The celandines are in flower. I even saw a marsh marigold flouncing around down by the river.

In the polytunnel we have: broad beans coming into flower, peas a good 5 inches above the ground, rhubarb looking rather delightful, rocket out of your ears, spinach a go go, chinese veg, cabbage, strawberries starting to flower, lettuces and sweet peas. Outside the garlic is looking great, the huge orchard is looking exciting (thanks mom, Charlie and Julian), vegetable beds are being dug, the purple sprouting is just starting to show its’ flowers, the secret garden has snowdrops and daffs by the hundred, plus all the wild daffodils, wild tulips and ransoms, I planted last year, are looking very exciting, with the ransoms just starting to produce flower heads. The “shrubbery” is starting to grow. Thanks to Christmas presents from Tim, Lisa, Tamsin, Sharon and Peter we now have many crab apples, cherry plums, rowan, dog woods and hornbeam.

James saw the frogs all at it on the 24th of Feb; no surprise then when we saw our first frog spawn in our pond on the 25th Feb! There’s loads of it.

Anyhow there are more photos of the barn on the website www.themaidensbarn.co.uk/imagegalleries.html. We’ll try and keep it all up to date .. now where’s the valium?

Late Autumn into Christmas



And after that small advertisement here’s an update on the last six or so weeks.

We’ve planted up our orchard now and have a number of local and old varieties. These include

Pig yr Wydd – which translates as the Head of the Goose, it’s an old local variety of cooking apple (early season)

Tin yr Wydd – which translates as Arse of the Goose! and is reference to the fact that this is a later cooking apple.

Marged Nicolas – are “Mature standard trees of this dual purpose variety, with their characteristic fountain shaped habit, grow in several farm orchards in Dinefwr. The yellow apples, speckled with russet markings, are ripe in late October and will keep until early Spring. The variety is hardy and disease resistant.” (Dinefwr is where my offices are, just 15 minutes down the road)

Ashmeads Kernel – is “an old English winter russet, medium size, golden-brown skin with a crisp nutty snap, exploding with champagne-sherbet juice infused with a lingering scent of orange blossom. Flesh is dense, sugary and aromatic with intense flavor.” Many of the descriptions say it’s like pear drops – which is vaguely perverse in an apple.

Stoke Red – “is a traditional West Country medium bittersharp cider apple.” (Yes we have ambitions to make cider.)

Yarlington Mill – is a traditional Somerset cider apple producing a medium bittersweet cider. (Lots of cider)

We have plums, pears and cherry as well – so we are looking forward to an excess of fruit in a few autumns time. One of our friends has very kindly contributed to the orchard, which is a lovely present thank you Julian, and for Christmas I know we are getting some native plants and trees to plant up our “shrrrubbbbbery!” from other friends and family, so thank you in anticipation.



The exciting news is that we have planning permission for the additions on the barn, which is great, and we have a builder. Yes we have a builder!! He is keen to work with us to do the lime rendering, flooring, working with Welsh sheeps wool insulation, he has worked with Ty Mawr before and I have been involved with them through Rounded Developments. Work should start at the beginning of Feb and we will be rolling up our sleeves and getting on with some building work (which also means we should be putting up some photos of the barn in various states of change which will be exciting).

It will also be a continuous list of questions, we have already changed our mind a couple of times about the underfloor heating. We have met some other neighbours who have got us back onto the underfloor heating now because we have witnessed theirs in action. These neighbours are the people whose house is on the hill in direct line of sight from the yurt. They were kind enough to offer us a shower as when they were building their place they used to bath out in the front garden! They said they couldn’t see anyone else go through that. However when we did go up go for a shower the other week the wine came out, and they are generous hosts! We finally left at 2 in the morning and staggered down the hill after a lovely and funny evening.


Anyhow the last month has been a beautiful one, the weather has been spectacular and created some very magical sights. Perfect for the yurt and the range we have bought! However we have seen the inside of the yurt a little too much over the last few days, we have both had this bug, for those of you who have had it.. how horrible was that!? James is still in bed, we’re missing Christmas eve at one set of parents, hopefully I will be able to put enough whisky down him so he doesn’t care tomorrow.


So finally – we wish you a happy Christmas / Nadolig Llawen from our yurt in the corner of a field in Carmarthenshire. Hope you all have a fabulous one and thank you for all your cards.

New Business


James has established a new business to enable him to continue working from home. It’s called Seren-IT, which is a name that works in English and Welsh and on a number of levels.

Seren-IT designs and distributes funky email newsletters, creates websites, and produces documents for printing, amongst other things.

Check out the new website: www.seren-it.co.uk

James’s brother, Tim, has also recently set up a business. He’s just received his first delivery of sofas to sell: www.door2doorsofas.com